Tolerations - And what can we do about them

As I have been coaching with my clients throughout January and February I have noticed alot of tolerations coming up. Tolerations, you say, what are they? They are things we are putting up with in our lives that really aren't something we want to do or have happen to us.

Are we really doing the things we enjoy. Did you go to the holiday location of your choice or was it to please someone else? Did please that someone and neglect yourself? How did it feel? Did you have the holiday you wanted? Did you get the renewal of energy that you wanted? If your holiday wasn't everything you thought it would be, what was the problem? Think about it so that you don't repeat the same thing again. After there is other holiday times throughout the year that you could have a truly delicious relaxing time.

Now that you are back at work. Is this really where you want to work? Or are you scared of change. So many people would rather stay in their comfort zone, never stepping out to see what else there is that life could offer them. Think back to the dreams you had as a teenager? What was it really wanted to do?  Could you still do it?  Life can be changed at any age.

Let's trying getting out of our comfort zones in all areas of your life. Make change your friend. Think of all the exciting changes you could make that will give your life a whole new perspective.

Stop tolerating all the things that don't give you energy. Put up some boundaries around yourself to improve your personal standards that will love, honor and value yourself.

Tell me what you propose to do and we can see how many others are interested in making change their friend.

Lets get a CHANGE CLUB going, so that we can all support each other.

Anyone wanting to join the CHANGE CLUB 2007 whether it be small changes taken in baby steps or something big. Email me and we can get started.

Comments

[Leah Maclean]

What is it with January & February and tolerations Elly? I have been chatting with a number of people who have been going nuts through tolerating stuff over the past couple of weeks.

[Elly]

I know what you mean Leah. It seems that people lose all sight of reality when it is summer time. Maybe they are so busy enjoying the warmth of the season it is like they forget about the realities of life. Living in a fantasy of "it's summer, let me enjoy it" So in doing that they lose sight of what is real and what ain't. Avoiding reality of what is really happening in their lives and the things they are tolerating all add up to as you say "going nuts tolerating stuff". Then it all comes tumbling down on them and they find their things in their lives that really bug them. Time to make some changes, that is really why I wanted to start the CHANGE GROUP. Lets makes changes that will really let our lives working as a client of mines says "right here, right now". Are you happy with where you are right now, if not, what are you going to do about it. Email me lets get this group moving forward